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by Fred Price
What does it mean to be a child of God? I could list any number of characteristics to describe a child of God – to me a few of the more important are trust and trustworthiness, dependence and dependability; as well as obedience. Some may challenge that and that’s fine – let’s see what the Bible has to say.
Children seemed to readily accept and be drawn to Jesus. (Matthew 21:14-16) In return, Jesus often used child-like faith and trust to encourage, teach and even scold his adult listeners. In responding to the question – ‘Who is greatest?’, “He called a little child and had him stand among them. And he said, ‘I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.’” (As the child probably came forward a bit shyly yet happily accepting the Lord’s attention.) “Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 18:2-4
The Gospels relate another incident where parents were bringing infants and children to Jesus to be seen, touched and blessed by him, only to be rebuked and chased back by the disciples who thought this a waste of time; to which Jesus became indignant. (Mark 10:13-16) “He said to them, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” An incident particularly irritating to him as he had already declared, “Whoever welcomes one of these little children in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me does not welcome me but the one who sent me.” (Mark 9:36,37) He said this in response to their ongoing debate of greatness among themselves. They just weren’t getting it! Maybe that’s what led, at least in part, to Jesus saying that much had been “hidden” from the so-called wise; those who considered themselves the religious leaders and the social elite – and yet it was the children to whom it had been revealed due to their openness and willingness to believe. (Matthew 11:25) This in turn allows for unrestrained, child-like exuberance (1 John 3:1) in contrast to a childish, misdirected excitability.
Christ redefined what it meant to be a child; encompassing the pure in heart – those purposely innocent of evil, (Matthew 5:8) including those open to new teaching – not set in the traditions of the past (Matthew 9:16,17) but sensitive to the realities of what they were being called to believe, discerning the difference between not just good and evil but the better and best of a situation – qualifying us to become God’s children at any age. (Romans 8:16) Sometimes the principles taught were so simple that the elder listeners couldn’t understand as they sought “hidden” meanings that clouded the issues and masked the reality of what was being taught. They often didn’t want to have their minds expanded with new thoughts, preferring to have their existing “knowledge” validated while in truth, much of these new thoughts could be summed up in the idea of, “In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be adults.” 1 Corinthians 14:20
And yet – children can be fickle and unreliable. Surely that’s not what Christ is looking for as a Christian characteristic. In fact, scripture repeatedly calls for us to stand firm regardless of the circumstances (Mark 13:13), to be on guard and steadfast in the faith handed down to us (1 Corinthians 16:13), clinging to the written testimony and encouragement of the gospel. (1 Peter 5:12)
However, we can’t be so accepting, trusting and non-judgmental as to fail to discern the difference between truth and a lie; becoming prey to those who teach false doctrines, myths and controversies as opposed to concentrating on God’s true word and work. (1 Timothy 1:3,4) We must not, “…believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.” 1 John 4:1 We are to “avoid godless chatter…” 2 Timothy 2:16, while training ourselves, “…to be godly.” 1 Timothy 4:7, realizing that “…no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Christ Jesus.” 1 Corinthians 3:11 (See also Galatians 1:6-10)
But how do we become trained in godliness? By acquiring knowledge of God and his way, then putting that knowledge into practice. That will happen when we hunger and thirst for righteousness in our lives (Matthew 5:6), not merely having an interest in religion but craving understanding; a holy distraction that must be resolved before anything else makes sense or can be attended to. For, “Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right.” Proverbs 10:11 There being those who, “…claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him.” Titus 1:16 Proving Christ’s point that, “...wisdom is proved right by her actions.” Matthew 11:19
So how do we make sure our actions are pure, reflecting God’s will; especially at a young age when much of life appears so hard to understand and often is so changeable? For, “Folly is (can be) bound up in the heart of a child,” Proverbs 22:15, creating problems in answering life’s questions and dealing with it’s ambiguities. Training. Exercise. Development. Not a passing interest or mere curiosity that demands answered prayer and results when needed but never considered otherwise, but persistent, consistent, purposeful study and application of God’s will as declared in Jesus Christ. As a consequence of parental teaching and training and our own personal application of that training while young, many of the decisions we will be required to make throughout life will be easier and more productive. (Proverbs 22:6) We are to keep God’s word and will before us always. (Deuteronomy 11:18-21) In so doing we will be able to more fully obey everything Jesus commanded (Matthew 28:20), more readily discern the difference between obeying God as opposed to the dictates of man (Acts 5:28); in the process gaining the respect of believers and unbelievers alike. (1 Thessalonians 4:11,12) This being expressed best through our love of God. For “This is love for God: to obey his commands.” 1 John 5:3
That takes determination and practice. As physical beings we naturally grow – we must or we die. The same principle holds true in the spiritual realm. “Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation,” 1 Peter 2:2 Growing up being key to our maturity as spiritual beings as well as physical ones. Paul lamented that some Christians were not growing up in the word, remaining “worldly”,… “mere infants in Christ.” 1 Corinthians 3:1-3He further pointed out that there were those who ought to have been teaching others by word and deed concerning the life of Christ but who still needed, “…someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food!” They had become comfortable with what they knew and lackadaisical about their duty of putting it into practice. This they should have done even as they continued to grow up in God’s word and will, expressing that growth of knowledge in acts of worship and service. “Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.” Hebrews 5:11-14
We must grow up, leaving childhood behind, while maintaining the admirable attributes of children Christ so admired; recognition and quick acceptance of truth, boldness in declaring ourselves in love with our Father (Romans 8:14-16) and sensitivity to his will. That will make us vulnerable, placing our trust in his way even when we don’t fully understand it yet; as all compliant love does. Yet our sense of reason must develop beyond that of a child if we are to effectively participate in the ministry of evangelizing the world for Christ. We must be like Paul in that regard as he declared, “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.” 1 Corinthians 13:11 He was not childish in applying the truth of the gospel but child-like in his acceptance of the gospel.
“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” 1 John 3:1
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Fred Price - married (50 years), father of two grown children, grandfather of six.
Fred retired earlier this year after 42 years as a factory worker. He has always had a heart for young people and the challenges they face today. Over the years Fred has taught Discipleship Groups for High School and college students.
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