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by Fred Price
Legitimate research continues to uncover mounting evidence showing a correlation between explicit sexual lyrics and teen sexual activity. Research by the Rand Corp. of Pittsburg and reported on by Lindsey Tanner of the Associated Press reveals once again that young people whose iPods are full of music with raunchy, sexual lyrics start having sex sooner than those whose musical tastes are less inclined to graphic portrayals of private intimate practices. (Nor is it a stretch to apply these findings to television, movies, videos and video games, books, magazines, or even web sites that deal in graphic portrayals of sex.)
Whether hip-hop, rap, pop or rock, much of the music aimed at teens today contains sexual overtones at the very least. Its influence on behavior seems to hinge on the degree to which sex is portrayed. Songs depicting men as sex-driven and women as sex objects with explicit references to sex acts are far more likely to trigger early sexual behavior than those whose sexual references are more veiled and where relationships are depicted as long-term commitments. Teens who admitted to being heavy-listeners of music with explicit sexual images were found almost twice as likely to begin sexual activity – up to and including intercourse – within 24 months of exposure to such music as were those whose musical entertainment contained little or no such imagery. (51% to 29%)
This should come as no great surprise; the idea that we are or become what we “feed” on or routinely expose ourselves to having a long history. In fact, the practice of repeatedly exposing our minds to a particular discipline of thought goes a long way in preparing us for a lifetime of effort in a chosen profession or trade, which is what college is all about. What we fill our minds with is what we become on so many different levels. The writer of Proverbs pointedly reminding us, “…as a (man) thinketh in his heart, so is he…” Proverbs 23:7 (KJ)
The beauty and power of music can’t be denied. Its ability to move people is no secret – putting us in the mood for any number of things – being used for personal, religious and patriotic purposes for centuries. Music excites and incites; it inspires and conspires; ennobling as well as degrading. With repetition, it teaches a whole host of concepts and ideas.
Steven Martino, lead author of a recent study published in Pediatric Magazine;found that routine exposure to sexually explicit and degrading music gives young people a specific message concerning their behavior. Boys learning to be relentless in pursuit of girls and girls becoming convinced to view themselves as merely objects for sexual gratification. “We think that really lowers kids inhibitions and makes them less thoughtful,” about the decisions they make concerning sex and their own sexuality; resulting in decisions they often regret.
On the other hand, Benjamin Chavis, chief executive officer of a coalition of hip-hop musicians and recording industry executive’s claims that explicit musical lyrics are merely a cultural expression that reflects social and economic realities; cautioning against rushing to judgment that music causes teens to initiate sex more than other factors. But that’s not really the point! Other factors may very well contribute, yet the real question underlying this debate is: Does it contribute significantly at all? And if so, how do we guard against that influence and its consequences? Another pertinent question needing to be answered is whether we as a people should try to reflect – and thus promote – the current trends in society or strive to be something different? Should we look to the best or worst of society for inspiration?
Jesus says, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” Matthew 5:8 Scripture repeatedly asking, “How can a young man (or woman) keep (their) way pure?” Answering with, “By living according to (God’s) word.” Psalm 119:9 Again, Jesus explaining, “The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.”; and his life’s actions are generated. Luke 6:45 Paul, mentoring a young apprentice for service in the church, instructed him to earn the respect of his peers and elders by being an example of purity in speech, faith and love – throughout his entire life. 1 Timothy 4:12
Natasha Ramsey, a 17 year old from New Jersey who admits to listening to explicitly suggestive music says, “I won’t really realize that the person is talking about having sex or raping a girl.” Even so, she maintains the message, “is being beaten into teen’s heads. We don’t even realize how much. A lot of teens think that’s the way they’re supposed to be, they think that’s the cool thing to do. Because it’s so common, it’s accepted.” Ramsey, teen editor of a teen sex and health website produced at Rutgers University concludes with, “Teens will try to deny it, they’ll say, ‘No, it’s not the music’, but it is the music that has one of the biggest impacts on our lives.”1
So how do we keep from being contaminated by music or any other form of questionable entertainment? By actively, purposefully, diligently guarding against it! Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” Proverbs 4:23 Using God’s word as our standard, we can learn to make proper choices in our lives. “For the ear tests words as the tongue tastes food. Let us discern for ourselves what is right; let us learn together what is good.” Job 34:3,4When we do, we will find the peace of God, “…which transcends all understanding,…” which will then, “…guard (our) hearts and (our) minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3:7
The cry of our hearts and purpose of our souls should be for God to, “Create in me a pure heart,…” renewing “…a steadfast spirit within (us).” Psalm 51:10 This is accomplished in part when we work to insure the words of our mouths and the meditation of our hearts are pleasing in God’s sight. (Psalm 19:14) “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things… and the God of peace will be with you.” Philippians 4:8,9
1Quotes and research information appearing in the Terre Haute Tribune’s coverage of Lindsey Tanners report, Raunchy Sex Lyrics Prompt Teens To Start Having Sex.
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Fred Price - married (50 years), father of two grown children, grandfather of six.
Fred retired earlier this year after 42 years as a factory worker. He has always had a heart for young people and the challenges they face today. Over the years Fred has taught Discipleship Groups for High School and college students.
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