Subscription Lists

Refreshment in Refuge

    by Gina Burgess

August 4, 2013

We are told to “follow your heart” in some of the best books and films. Is that the best advice that man can conjure? Or does that actually come from Satan? Follow your heart, do what your heart tells you. Is it your heart or is it chemical reaction? Is it your heart or is it lust?

I have often thought it would be nice to have someone to share things with when God reminds me that I do that with my Mom. Then I wonder if I am to live out the rest of my life alone as Paul did. And God reminds me that His grace is sufficient for me. God tells me that I do not understand…  ( Click for more )

July 28, 2013

Paul said, God's objective truth has become subjective truth for all of us, and none of us has excuses to deny His Truth (Romans 1, loose paraphrase). I see this at work everywhere I look. God has set down the Truth that is solid and indisputable. Because a person believes there is no God does not dispense with God. He remains Truth. Just as no amount of denial can remove gravity from existence, no amount of denial can dispense with God, or the eternal consequences of such denial.

He is the one that made us complex beings in His image. Scientifically, Jesus was. He walked,…  ( Click for more )

July 21, 2013

Sometimes broken things fascinate me. It was a passion with my Dad to fix broken things. He was an engineer without a degree. If something was beyond repair, he would set the thing aside to make sure there were no parts or pieces that could be used to fix something else. I cannot testify that he ever threw anything away except maybe used paper towels or Kleenex. There isn’t enough room here to itemize all the handy tools and gadgets that Dad had engineered. When he passed away, my sister and I found little bitty pieces parts organized in boxes, cans, and other containers…  ( Click for more )

July 14, 2013

My baby girl, all of four years old, looked up at me with a tear-streaked face and whispered, “I’m sorry, Mommy.”

How can you look at a sweet face and get angry? When I took time to look at both my girls’ faces, I never could get deeply angry with them. Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh was not foremost in my thoughts, but how precious were these two gifts from God. How wonderful and marvelous that God trusted me with them, to nurture them and raise them in Him. Besides, they were so cute.

We had a sunken den, which is one of the most dangerous…  ( Click for more )

Several years ago, I was driving down the highway and just as I got to my turn off something came flying at me from the truck in front of me. This white thing tumbled onto the highway spewing ice and straw and whatever liquid was at the bottom of the cup. It was a government truck, too. You'd think government people would know better ...

It got me to thinking about character and how our actions expose our character when we least expect it. Flaws shine out like light house beacons, or personality strengths take on the glow of heroes at work. Throughout life we learn certain…  ( Click for more )

The "Gay Rights" advocates had a hay day with the Supreme Court ruling this week. But, the laws of the land are still the same. There are still 38 states that outright ban same sex marriages with constitutions defining marriage between one man and one woman. The judicial courts do not make laws, and in California, a district court cannot negate a law voted on by the people. So the debate rages on...

I read one of the best discussions on the public debate that homosexuality is a sin argument.

Of course we Christians know it is a sin, but we are all sinners.…  ( Click for more )

June 23, 2013

If you google wisdom, you can find some tiny drops of wisdom, but mostly it is just hot air. For instance, Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” That saying rings all kinds of warning bells in my head. Of course, I get the implication. Forge your own way and forget about following where others have trod. God points out an instance where that advice is perfect wisdom.

In Deuteronomy 12:13 God warns not to follow behind those that have been destroyed before the Israelites. The wise…  ( Click for more )

June 16, 2013

Have you ever noticed that without wind a sail boat just drifts? We can row, but how much energy that takes, and it takes so long to go a short distance. We have motors on boats that help us to get from point A to point B, but what happens when the guide wire breaks?

My sister and I were water skiing at Lake Bruin (gorgeous place in Northeast Louisiana) with several friends in an older, but refurbished wooden boat. Actually, I was just along for the ride because I had sprained my ankle badly the day before. We dropped off a few friends at their camp and were about to go back…  ( Click for more )

Bible scholars point to this psalm as reflecting David’s reaction to his circumstances at the time. Another aspect scholars relate to this psalm is that David is a type of Christ (much like Psalm 22 where David cries out “My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?”

Looking at the surface of this psalm, one would think, “How can David say all these things about himself? How can he assert his innocence when we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God?”

Psalm 26:1 Of David. Vindicate me, O LORD, for I have walked in my integrity, and…  ( Click for more )

Several years ago, I was talking to my sister and she told me that my nephew was divorcing his wife. My great nephew was barely two years old.

"Why? What happened?" I asked, crushed that this young little family was breaking up. My great nephew won't know the safe harbor of a close knit family. The dilemma being is it better to grow up in a house full of strife or in a fatherless home? Then again, you can never truly know a person’s heart, can you? I could hear the anguish in my sister’s voice.

"I don't know, Gina,” she replied. “It's…  ( Click for more )

Last year my friend Mike Duran asked his readers a few questions about the most interesting and impacting books they have read. I had written a post back in 2006 answering similar questions. I thought my list would probably change since I review about 40 to 50 books per year, and surely I would find a newer book that would take the place of an older one on my list. Even after seven years, my list is about the same. I thought it would be good to get other people's lists (hopefully you will share yours!) so we could get some summer reading done. Here are my answers...

Books that…  ( Click for more )

The first key to handling difficult people (part 1 is here) is to understand what is difficult about them. Yes, I know, they are difficult and they drive you crazy, but how are they difficult?

Does this person know-it-all? Does this person fly off the handle for no apparent reason, acting irrationally at the slightest provocation? Completely egotistic? Does this person take credit for your work and your ideas? Does the word prickly aptly describe him? Does she wear her feelings on her sleeve, and you can’t say anything without instigating some drama?

The reason…  ( Click for more )

God designed the human being as a fellowship-driven being. Our relationships with others determine our opinion of them. How we Christians interact with others is closely watched by God and by Satan, not to mention many who know we are Christian and judge us accordingly. If a person has an excellent work record, but she has a prickly personality that causes more problems than solves them, she does not exhibit the kind of life that draws people to herself; much less draw them to Christ. When a Christian knows what God wants done such as forgiving a wrong, and that Christian willfully…  ( Click for more )

May 5, 2013

There was a loud, long crack that reverberated into every fiber of my being. Then everything split apart and crashed to earth. It sounded like clanging cymbals rather than tinkling glass.

I'm talking about my world as I knew it. The crack was when the Sheriff put a notice on my back door that if we didn’t move by the end of the week, all our stuff would be outside by the street. Our home of over ten years was repossessed. Then the crash was when my teenage daughters came home from school and found their father in bed with two whores. That was special.

It was…  ( Click for more )

April 28, 2013

James 1:4 But let endurance and steadfastness and patience have full play and do a thorough work, so that you may be [people] perfectly and fully developed [with no defects], lacking in nothing.

It's a wonder I survived

There was something that went around the internet a million years ago talking about being a child of the 50s. Well, I am a product of the 60s. Gasp. I'm still alive and I'm healthy. That is such a remarkable thing because listening to news stories, or product recalls, or even doctors it's a wonder that children reached the ripe old age of 10 or saw the…  ( Click for more )

(Column rerun this week. This originally ran May, 2009) I am presenting my capstone project for my Master's degree and deeply desire your prayers.)

Thunder crashing, rain pounding, water rising... those are things people pay attention to. If we don't something might happen, something beyond our control, but nevertheless, something bad might happen. Why is that? Why do we fear the things beyond our control?

We have a mighty Creator who stirs up the sea and makes its waves roar (Isaiah 51:15) He has covered us with His hand. He is our LORD and He is mightier than any…  ( Click for more )

April 14, 2013

Because He wept at His friend’s grave, He understands my grief as my tears roll down His fingers and my trembling chin is lifted by His palm. Because He had no place to lay His head, He knows the weariness of my body. Because He walked with feet bare and dusty, He knows the pain in my feet. Because He held a baby, He knows my love for my children. Because He stilled the sea, He knows the storms in my heart. Because He knew hunger, He knows my hatred for diets. Because He built a chair, He knows why I must sit down. Because He loves me, I am at rest. Because He died for…  ( Click for more )

2 Samuel 14:13

Like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be recovered, so we must die. But God does not take away life; instead, he devises ways so that a banished person may not remain estranged from him.

And you wonder why things we consider bad sometimes happen.

The crevasse within the soul is such a god-sized hole, one must either find or create a god to fill it. For the most part, Americans give evidence that they use two primordial gods called Fortune and Destiny to that end. The question is why do so many put faith in what has proven very fickle…  ( Click for more )

Perhaps you’ve seen the movie Barabbas with Anthony Quinn, or the other one updated as a mini-series. I had often wondered about this story until I heard James Merritt preach on Barabbas that helped me to understand this truth:

The story of Barabbas was put in the Bible to explain in a physical way the Spiritual truth of propitiation. Barabbas was a robber, a murderer, a liar, a cheat, and profaner of God Himself. He broke every commandment and was sentenced to pay for his crimes. It was a just sentence from the Hebrew perspective of the Ten Commands. The…  ( Click for more )

(Originally published in Arizona Medicine, March 1965, Arizona Medical Association. A medical explanation of what Jesus endured on the day He died.)

By Dr. C. Truman Davis

Dr. C. Truman Davis is a graduate of the University of Tennessee College of Medicine. He is a practicing ophthalmologist, a pastor, and author of a book about medicine and the Bible.

Several years ago I became interested in the physical aspects of the passion, or suffering, of Jesus Christ when I read an account of the crucifixion in Jim Bishop’s book, The Day Christ Died. I suddenly…  ( Click for more )

There was a story last year that hardly caused a ripple in the new media. Very few news outlets took up the story, and hardly any followed it through to the “end”. Judge Michael F. Urbanski offered a tentative settlement between ACLU and a school district of just removing the first four commands of the Ten Commandments to make the document more palatable to the ACLU..

The case was ordered into mediation. In June of 2012, the school board not only voted to take down the Ten Commandments at the high school, but also in every other school in Giles County,…  ( Click for more )

Isaiah 1:18 Come now and let us reason together, says Jehovah: Though your sins are as scarlet, they shall be white as snow; though they are red as the crimson, they shall be like wool.

Isaiah 58:2 Yet they seek Me day by day, and desire knowledge of My ways. As a nation that has done right, and not forsaking the judgment of their God, they ask Me about judgments of righteousness; they desire to draw near to God.

Isaiah 58:3 They say, Why have we fasted, and You did not see? We have afflicted our soul, and You did not acknowledge. Behold, on the day of your fast you…  ( Click for more )

In the Garden…

Seemingly the women and the men are working at cross purposes toward the same end: annointing of Christ's body before burial. The women and also Nicodemus & Joseph of Arimethia want to prepare it. (John 19) Since Nicodemus and Joseph were associated with the Jewish leaders, the women (as we say here in the South) had no truck with them so separate preparations were made. Since Joseph asked for Jesus' body and the tomb was his, this is most likely why he and Nicodemus were able to prepare Jesus' body for the burial before the women got finished…  ( Click for more )

When you are betrayed, life shatters into so many pieces it is difficult to know where to start picking them up and putting them back together. The need to save face after a betrayal stems from a self-misconception you deserved the betrayal or that you caused it in some way. You do not wish to be judged; therefore you use masks to cover the deep emotional turmoil in which you are embroiled. A person will exhibit different aspects of several communication theories while trying to do just that. Politeness Theory explains a lot of the behavior exhibited when a marriage initially…  ( Click for more )

February 17, 2013

I kept putting off writing this last week because I thought I had just too much on my plate to take time for it. I thought other things were more important. Well, school work is more important right now, but I’ve had this column as a responsibility long before I went back to school to earn my Master’s.

It’s the desk lasagna that gets in my way. I suddenly found that I was closed in and had a 5” x 10” space to write in, and that all my layers had closed in over things I needed. This reminded me of how much worldly things close in around…  ( Click for more )

Got Something to Share?
LiveAsIf.org is always looking for new writers. Whether it is a daily devotional or a weekly article, if you desire to encourage others to know Him better, then signup to become a contributor.